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Written by:  Stacy Kamala Waltman
September26, 2010

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Before the heroes journey our laser sharp and strategic mind identifies and postulates experiences outside – intellectually, abstractly and compartmentalized.

Everything neatly in its place constricted, rigid and controlled by repetition and stale, lifeless air.

Synapse grooves deepen becoming more and more entrenched.  Caring for others only when payoff wafts and ego satiated.

Enter Grace; as miraculous intervention.  With veiled eyes her gifts are discarded; valueless.  Our sight on another horizon of glory.

Refusing the rebuke while turning up the heat, Grace stands firm remaining cloaked.  We begin the journey; unawares.  A reluctant traveler still holding on.

Tests accelerate; tackle once depended upon melts as we enter hot swampy depths; tar pits, shadow selves and skeletons abound.

Hell, this must be we decide.  How will we survive?  We can’t possibly deserve this wrath!  After all!…..but the ripening has begun in spite of accelerated protests.

Applying what we know, failing again and again.  We need to become firmer the past demands!  Take hold!  I AM in charge!

Constricting tightly, then inevitable shattering into slivered shards.

Yet Grace still there gently smiling, showers us with fresh new gifts; courage and vision.  A newer and richer life  reflected in those threads of glass.

Light cast in radiant hues.

Vulnerable, scared, hopeless yet brave; new unfamiliar tools slowly hammer within.

Awkwardness increases in direct proportion to vision, vast.  Yesterday’s certainty a dusty mirage.

Beginner’s mind congeals as we traverse this dark night.  Unsteady and staggering we forge anew.

Today’s discomfort fights yesterday’s certainty; battle raging in a field of ambivalence.  To the death each one cries!

One is annihilated, the other truly born.

Grace, like a firefly flickers again with encouragement seen only with vision, clear.

Emerging from the darkened swamp, demons vanquished, black wood drizzled with dappled light; knowledge transmuting.

Wisdom weaves then integrates into cellular memory, the decay giving rise to the bloom.  A blossom rare.

As seasons pass, compassion springs forth from these seeded fields, no longer feigned.

Allowing, letting go, surrendering into interconnectedness. ~

Copyright © 2010 (Stacy Kamala Waltman)

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Professional Transformational Life Coach and Spiritual Intuitive, Stacy Kamala Waltman who specializes in moving past grief in all areas of our lives and into Radical Forgiveness is holding a special teleseminar titled, “Upgrading Your Story”.

“We are a compilation of our stories – which are all untrue – yet the very fact that we repeat them and identify with them makes them very true for us.” ~ Stacy Kamala Waltman

The quality of our life is determined by two things: the level of awareness we bring to each situation and the content of the stories we focus upon. Since we are going to tell stories about our lives, let’s focus upon stories of our abundance and live from that place outward.

In order to do this, we have to retrain ourselves; sometimes daily, sometimes hourly, and often moment by moment because the stories we tell ourselves are embedded into our being on every level including the cellular level.

When we believe negative and self defeating stories about ourselves and draw “evidence” of their truth from our selective perceptions and interpretations, it is very difficult to change our experiences in the world. That is why it is so important to practice seeing with a different vision.  This seminar will help train you to look through and interpret life through a new life enhancing lens.

Having been on the spiritual path for over 30 years, Stacy Kamala Waltman brings clarity and a laser like precision to her courses honed through advanced study, living these principles and deep refinement.

This teleseminar will be a four week course held each Tuesday evening from 7:00 – 8:00pm PST, beginning on Tuesday, October 12, 2010 thru Tuesday, November 2, 2010.

This teleseminar event meets up via telephone and there will be some homework.

To calculate your time zone, please visit this resource:  http://www.timeanddate.com/worldclock

Space is limited to the first 8 participants!

This four week series is only $88. 

To register, please visit the following PayPal link – this allows secure payment through all credit cards or via checking account:

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Please email the PayPal confirmation page to:  ic@integrationcoaching.com so that we can send you the conference number and access code to this life changing teleseminar!

To your abundant happiness,

Stacy Kamala Waltman

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A friend of mine sent this to me today – Valentine’s Day – and it’s a lovely reminder of how we hold each other in our “mind’s eye”.   

On a trip to Kiniwata Island in the Pacific I had the most extraordinary experience.  The island was outrageously beautiful and I had an enjoyable time, but the thing I remember most about my trip was the fact “Johnny Lingo gave eight cows for his wife.”   I remember Johnny every time I see a man belittle his wife or a wife demean her husband.  When I see either one treat their partner with scorn, I say to them, “You need to know why Johnny Lingo gave eight cows for his wife!” 

Johnny Lingo is known throughout the islands for his skills, intelligence, and savvy. If you hire him as a guide, he will show you the best fishing spots and the best places to get pearls. Johnny is also one of the sharpest traders in the islands. He can get you the best possible deals. The people of Kiniwata all speak highly of Johnny Lingo. Yet, when they speak of him, they always smile just a little mockingly. 

A couple days after my arrival to Kiniwata, I went to the manager of the guesthouse to see who he thought would be a good fishing guide. “Johnny Lingo,” said the manager. “He’s the best around. When you go shopping, let him do the bargaining.  Johnny knows how to make a deal.” 

“Johnny Lingo!” hooted a nearby boy, “Yea, Johnny can make a deal alright!” 

“What’s going on?” I asked, “Everybody tells me to get in touch with Johnny Lingo and then they start laughing.  What’s going on?” 

“Johnny’s the brightest and strongest young man in the islands,” the manager said.  “He’s also the richest for his age.” “But …” I protested. “… if he’s all you say he is, why does everyone laugh at him behind his back?” 

“Well, there is one thing. Five months ago, at the fall festival, Johnny Lingo came to Kiniwata and found himself a wife. He gave her father eight cows!” I knew enough about the local island customs to be impressed. A dowry of two or three cows would net a fair wife and four or five cows would net a very nice wife. 

“Wow!” I said. “Eight cows! She must have beauty that takes your breath away.” “She’s not ugly, …” he conceded with a little smile, “… but calling her ‘plain’ would definitely be a compliment. Sam Karoo, her father, was afraid she would never marry and instead of being stuck with her, he received eight cows for her hand in marriage!  Isn’t that extraordinary? This price has never ever been paid before!” 

The next afternoon I wanted to fish and find the extraordinary pearls the islands were known to cultivate, so I went to the island of Nurabandi.  As I asked for the directions to Johnny’s house, I noticed Johnny’s neighbors were also amused at the mention of his name.  When I met the slim, serious young man I could see immediately why everyone respected his skills. However, this only reinforced my confusion over him.  

As we sat in his house, he asked me, “You come here from Kiniwata?” 

“Yes.”  My curiosity overrode my concern about being polite and I asked, “People there say you exceeded the normal marriage offering of only two cows.  They say you gave eight cows and you grossly overpaid for your wife.” I paused. “They wonder why.” 

“They ask that?” His eyes lighted with pleasure. “Everyone in Kiniwata knows about the eight cows?” I nodded. 

“And in Nurabandi, everyone knows it too?” His chest expanded with satisfaction. “Always and forever, when they speak of marriage settlements, it will be remembered that Johnny Lingo paid eight cows for Sarita.” 

So that’s the answer, I thought: Vanity. 

Just then Sarita entered the room to place flowers on the table. She stood still for a moment to smile at her husband and then left. She was clearly the most beautiful woman I have ever seen. The lift of her shoulders, the tilt of her chin, and the sparkle in her eyes all spelled self-confidence and pride. Not an arrogant and haughty pride, but a confident inner beauty that radiated in her every movement.  I turned back to Johnny and found him looking at me curiously.  

“You find her beautiful?” he murmured. “She … she’s gorgeous.” I said. “Obviously, this is not the one everyone is talking about. She can’t be the Sarita you married on Kiniwata.” 

“There’s only one Sarita. Perhaps, she doesn’t look the way you expected?” 

“She doesn’t. I heard she was homely. They make fun of you because you let yourself be cheated by Sam Karoo.” 

“You think eight cows were too many?” A smile slid over his lips. 

“No, but how can she be so different from the way they described her?” 

Johnny said, “Think about how it must make a girl feel to know her husband paid a very low dowry for her? It must be insulting to her to know he places such little value on her. Think about how she must feel when the other women boast about the high prices their husbands paid for them. I would not let this happen to my Sarita.” 

“So, you paid eight cows just to make your wife happy?” 

“Well, of course I wanted my Sarita to be happy, but there’s more to it than that. You say she is different from what you expected. This is true. Many things can change a woman. There are things that happen on the inside and things that happen on the outside. However, the thing that matters most is how she views herself. In Kiniwata, Sarita believed she was worth nothing. As a result, that’s the value that she projected. Now, she knows she is worth more than any other woman on the islands.  Because she feels valued, she is happy and very good to me.  We have a good and happy life.”

“Then you wanted …”  “I wanted to marry Sarita. She is the only woman I love.” 

“But …” I was close to understanding. “But,” he finished softly, “I wanted an eight-cow wife.” 

Think about your words and actions (both public and private). Do your words and actions make your mate feel s/he is worth eight cows or just one cow?  You are cheating yourself and your partner when you minimize your partner’s value by projecting that they are worth only one cow.  

If you cause damage in this way, your loved one’s will start acting like a one cow person and your life will be miserable.   

As a general rule people respond according to the value you place on them.  Place a higher value on yourself and others by cherishing those that you love.  Your life will be richer and more joyful living this way. 

Happy Valentine’s Day! 

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TREEGREETINGS . . . the eCard that Plants a Tree!

Here’s a really cool idea . . . for someone special AND the earth. Each eCard you send plants trees that give shade, homes for animals and life producing oxygen!

Appreciate a friend, thank a loved one, reward an employee, dazzle a client, wow your family, and celebrate a holiday!

Each personalized eCard includes beautiful music, a tree planting tour of the sites, an instantly printable full color personalized certificate AND an 18″-36″ tree planted in their name in Central America. 

For additional information, please visit:  http://www.integrationcoaching.com/ripples.htm and please tell your friends and colleagues about this fun gift of giving!

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A Bridge

1.  The Gift of a Compliment:  A simple and sincere, “You look happy!”, “You radiate kindness!”, “That meal was delicious!, “I love laughing with you!”, “You make me smile”, “I noticed the amount of effort and care you put into our meal” ~ find a way to give the gift of a compliment, it can make someone’s day.

2.  The Gift of a Cheerful Disposition:  The easiest way to feel good is to extend a kind word or gesture to someone.  Look for the positive in every situation.  Give someone the benefit of the doubt.

3.  The Gift of a Written  Note:  It can be a simple, “Thanks for the help!” note, a full sonnet or a meaningful remembrance.  A brief, handwritten note from you may be cherished for a lifetime.

4.  The Gift of Seeing Someone in their Highest and Best Light:  Noticing when someone is doing something right, kind, helpful, thoughtful, selfless, or simply seeing them in this way in spite of evidence to the contrary, can add enormous benefit to a person’s well being.

5.  The Gift of Prayer:  Sending loving and healing prayers to the Divine for someone else’s benefit can heal in spite of physical, mental or emotional distance.

6.  The Gift of Laughter:  Clip cartoons. Share funny stories, books and movies to add lightheartedness to the lives of everyone involved.

7.  The Gift of Affection:  Be generous with appropriate hugs, kisses, pats on the back, handholding, caressing, stroking and reaching out to another.  These small actions demonstrate your love for family and friends.

8.  The Gift of Listening:  Really listen.  Resist interrupting, don’t daydream, don’t plan a retort or response.  Just listen and be fully present.  When we have this undivided and nurturing attention from another we feel seen.

9.  The Gift of Solitude:  There are times when we want nothing more than to be left alone.  Be sensitive to those times and give the gift of solitude without taking it personally.

10.  The Gift of a Favor:  Either ask what you can for someone to ease their day or simply open the door for the person entering a store and let them go in before you.  Give up your seat on the bus to someone who looks tired.  Decide to cull your closet of the items you don’t use, let go of items that bring up bad memories for you and donate them to charity.  Shovel snow off of your neighbors sidewalk or offer to mow their lawn.

11.  The Gift of Reading Aloud:  Gather your friends and/or family by the fire and take turns reading a story to one another.  Enjoy the give and take of being animated while reading and then sinking into comfort while its your turn to listen.

12.  Do Something Random and Kind for a Stranger:  Decide not to fight about who’s “owns” the lane on the freeway, just let the car next to you pass easily.  Flash your headlights to let them know it is safe.

 I would love to have you add to this list. 
Please contribute your thoughts about other priceless gifts we can give to one another for FREE!

Happy Holidays!

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Here is a wonderful organization that focuses on conscious consumerism. Please visit: http://www.newdream.org/index.php

This group supports the ideal that the American Dream is about “more of what matters in life,” not “more is better.” They share a vision of a world in which a healthy global ecosystem anchors a just society offering all global citizens the resources, freedom, peace, and security necessary to pursue their dreams, respect the natural world, and enjoy the highest possible quality of life.

This group also like to have fun. Last year they gave away a bicycle and a gas-sipping hybrid car as part of their campaign to push automakers to do their part to reduce oil dependence and stabilize the climate by bringing far more efficient vehicles to market. In January they gave a New Dream Community member a ten-day trip for two to Costa Rica, complete with airfare, carbon offsets, domestic transportation, activities, and lodging at eco-resorts.

They currently have their sights set on a number of specific goals, including:

“So,” you say, “that’s exciting and all, but what exactly is MY role in this community?” That’s ultimately up to you, of course, but here are four possibilities:

To global health!

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Two Horses
An Isreali Tale told by Crimean Jews
rewritten by Yoel Perez ©2001
Adapted by Laura Simms

Among the Peul people of Africa it is said that there is a little peace and a big peace, but there is no little quarrel. Even a matchstick can burn down a village.”

Two men, neighbors and friends, named Nabek and Dagar, lived near a great desert. Nabek had an incomparable horse. It was beautiful and as graceful as a deer. Dagar dreamed of having his friend’s horse. Day and night, he could not stop thinking about the horse. Finally, he went to Nabek and asked him to sell it to him. Nabek said, “I would not sell this animal for all the gold and diamonds in the world.”

Unable to control his desire, Dagar decided to trick his friend in order to gain the horse. He disguised himself as a beggar, covering his face, and sat by the side of a road where Nabek passed each day. When Nabak approached, Dagar moaned and called out for help, pretending to be thirsty and hungry. Nabek took pity on the beggar who he thought could no longer walk. He put him on the horse’s back in order to carry him to the marketplace.

The moment Dagar was on the horse, he sat up straight and took control of the reins. He kicked the horse and galloped away, shouting back at his neighbor, “I am Dagar. You will never get your horse back!”

Nabek did not chase after Dagar. But, he called after him, “Dagar, stop for a moment. I want to ask you something.” Recognizing that his friend could not catch him by foot, Dagar stopped. Nabek called out, “By Allah’s will you are now the owner of my wonderful horse. But, please never tell anyone how you got the horse.”

“Why not?” inquired Dagar.

“If people should hear how you tricked me they might never stop to help another beggar at the side of the road. They will be afraid. Perhaps they will leave some poor soul to die. If this story should be told, it could cause great evil in the world.”

Dagar listened and said nothing for a long time. Then, he climbed down off of the horse and gave it back to his neighbor. Together they returned to the tent of Nabek and made an agreement of peace and swore to be friends forever.

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The Marriage Whisperer and Creating a Federal Department of Peace

International

By Stacy K. Waltman

In Oprah’s November magazine the following article is published regarding utilizing the same skills we use in our personal relationships to guide us toward world peace.

http://www.mainedop.org/oprah.htm

Please take a moment to read this outstanding message which highlights the importance of using the word “AND” in place of “OR” in our thoughts and vocabulary.

When we allow multiple perspectives to occur simultaneously, we begin to broaden our understanding between people.

Retraining ourselves to look at many alternatives keeps our minds supple, our aggressive tendencies to a minimum and our lives rich. Self-righteous and entrenched positions begin to soften and relating versus controlling communication skills develop.

In conjunction with this article, there is also a movement to create a Federal Department of Peace within our government. This department will advocate non-violence and will also address issues such as child-abuse, gangs and drug addiction.

Non-violence is the governing principle of this organization. Non-violence (Ahimsa) is a broad virtue which encompasses the lack of hurtful thoughts, hurtful words and hurtful deeds directed to ourselves and each other. It begins with each one of us.

When you refrain from gossip you are practicing Ahimsa, when you are gentle to yourself and turn down your inner critic, you are practicing Ahimsa, when you speak about others with compassion instead of judgement, you are practicing Ahimsa. When you chose to cause no harm, you are practicing Ahimsa.

May you be blessed by recognizing when your own internal violence is engaged in making someone pay or in being the only one who is right and may you develop the skills to reverse this tendency and its control of your life.

 

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Mrs. Woo Woo’s World Famous Fortune Cookies

 

 

Please enjoy a fun and frivolous tale:

Fun Fortune Cookies

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Have fun!

 

 

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Caribou

By Stacy K. Waltman

It was 1924 and they shared a love for each other and for a vast, untamed Alaska and her living creatures.

Dedicating their lives to the preservation of what little remote wilderness was left in the world, they taught others how to observe nature quietly and to breathe in the smallest details of majestic horizons.

He was a field naturalist, an enormously talented artist who had an uncanny knack for cooing animals to his side. So close that some called it magic ~ a Dr. Doolittle of sorts.

She was the first female graduate of the University of Alaska in Fairbanks earning a degree in business.

She had no training and little preparation for the life they would embark upon together as man and wife. Their journey as a united soul began at three o’clock in the morning, on August 19, 1924.

In a log chapel along the Yukon River in the small riverside village of Anvik, Alaska they married and became the Murie’s – Olaus and Mardy.

Their honeymoon and life adventures together formed in the arctic wilderness with seven Siberian huskies in a dogsled team which carried the newlyweds through blizzards and tough terrain as they studied the migration patterns of caribou.

At that point in history, it was widely believed by “civilized” people that the harsh wilderness was not a place for women. It was too harsh and women were too frail.

Mardy endured a lot of criticism for her lifestyle. When asked how she managed, she once answered, “When the trail was good at all, I’d stand on the sled handlebars; otherwise, I’d have to run next to the sled. And those Alaska dogs were so eager to get into harness and go, that you could hardly restrain them in the morning,” said Mardy Murie. “They would go so fast that I just had to hang on to this curved handlebar at the back of the sled, and sometimes my arm and my feet would be flying out behind somewhere!”

Averaging approximately 20 miles a day, their honeymoon sleigh ride covered over 550 miles of wilderness Alaskan territory.

Mardy and Olaus raised their family on the open land and when asked by other women, “My goodness, wasn’t it awfully hard raising children in the wilderness?” Mardy would answer,
“Think of all the things I didn’t have to do. I didn’t have to go to a bridge party. I didn’t have to wax the floor. I didn’t have to answer the telephone and I didn’t have to be on a social committee.”

For 39 years they shared a passion and commitment to the preservation of wilderness and worked side by side in wildlife research and conservation.

Both lovers wrote books on their various expeditions together and chronicled the natural flow of long-forgotten creatures and their patterns in life and death.

In 1956, George Schaller was one of three young biologists who assisted the Murie’s on one of their trek’s – this one through the remote northeastern section of the Brooks Range in arctic Alaska.

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George Schaller’s 1956 report stated:

“Dr. Olaus Murie, intimately acquainted with the North Country, taught me in his quiet way to observe and appreciate many of the aspects of the wilderness which I had formally overlooked.

Mrs. Olaus Murie, or “Mardy” as she is known to everyone, with her charm and efficiency was largely responsible for the planning of our expedition, and it was through her efforts that we accomplished everything that we set out to do.

As a result of the 1956 trip to the Sheenjek, Mardy and Olaus as well as a lot of people, fought very hard to get the Arctic National Wildlife Refuge established.

We fight for the Refuge and for the last great wilderness in the United States.

I’ve traveled in many parts of the world, in the most remote wilderness, and I don’t think people in the United States realize what a treasure they have, because there is very little remote wilderness left in the world.

It is very hard to find a place that is virtually untouched, so the Refuge is really a treasure not just for the United States but for the world.”

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With the help of others, Olaus and Mardy Murie continued their environmental quest for preservation by fostering the growth and development of The Wilderness Society.

For eight years The Wilderness Society championed the government to pass a wilderness bill, protecting some of Alaska ‘s prime and pristine land until eventually, in 1964, President Lyndon B. Johnson signed the Wilderness Act.

He did not taste the fruits of the legislative bill’s passage though because in September 1963, pioneer and conservationist Olaus Murie passed away. Undeterred from their joint vision though, wife Mardy continued their quest for wilderness conservation until the age of 99.

In adventure, her’s was a life less traveled.

On some nights, Mardy’s spirit was fired by the midnight sun. On others, her soul was powered by stars that rained down from a pitch black sky.

And then there were those nights when enchantment would take flight with the aurora’s seductive dance illuminating the sky in flashes of color.

She studied the quiet and small as well as the enormous and vast and found magic through eyes that saw more than most.

The drums of her ears vibrated to a cacophony of wilderness melodies sung by a symphony of creatures that performed for no one but themselves.

She allowed herself to drink in a world of harmony and reverence and sought to share her cup overflowing with a world yet unborn.

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Mardy at 88 years old:

“So, what have I said? That we live in a precarious world; that we are threatened by man’s ingenuity; that we need a less consumptive lifestyle in order to preserve the beauty and grace of our world; and that our remaining wild places, our wilderness, have to be a most important element in all our thinking and all our doing.

I think if we saved every bit of designated wilderness it wouldn’t be enough to satisfy what I think should be the normal longings of a person to know what natural country looks like.

And I think just experiencing some fairly untouched country on our planet does something for a person’s mind and soul.”

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Mardy at 99 years young:

“I love to lie awake a little while at night – listening to the quietness. Only the faint sound of the river. There it is, out there – a piece of natural world – river and forest and mountains and sky, and all the creatures, safely curled up or wandering about, according to their various natures.

I lie there and listen, and feel the nightness of it all.

There is something smooth, silky, and harmonious about the night, a blessing and a benison – not simply a gap between hurried activities.”

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They were mavericks and the world has been blessed with the love and generosity of their vision.

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Star cluster

By Stacy Kamala Waltman

Here is another opportunity to be reminded of how different situations in our lives appear depending upon where we are in relationship to the circumstances.

At work, the CFO’s tasks include minimizing expenditures, the Marketing Director job entails maximizing exposure and impact of the company’s brand and the Human Resource Director’s task includes handling the emotional and legal climate of the company.

How well these individuals relate to one another and their respective roles in the company will have significant impact on the overall success of the organization.

How do you manage the appearance of a different point of view?

How do you navigate the emotional waters of conflict in new ways?

Will you benefit from learning a new skill set so that you can expand your current capacity to relate and converse?

The ability to broaden your perspectives will enhance every area of your life. Please take a look at this clip and remember what you already know.

http://micro.magnet.fsu.edu/primer/java/scienceopticsu/powersof10/index.html

I can help you learn a new set of tools to expand your perspective, conversational skills and relate to others in ways that will increase your success at work and at home.

To your success!

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Thailand 

By Stacy K. Waltman

“The ability to perceive or think differently is more important than the knowledge gained.” – David Bohm (http://twm.co.nz/Bohm.html )

What is leadership and what makes a good leader?

As with many of our perceptions, the definition of leadership has been evolving with our understanding of the world and each individual’s place in it. 

We have historically thought of leadership as a quality that exists in certain people and not others.  In the past, the idea of someone in a leadership position has been one with a great deal of authority, power and independence. 

When we have this mind-set and search for this fixed type of person, we don’t really see each other.  Instead of seeing what is in front of us, we see stored-up images, interpretations, feelings, doubts, distrusts, likes and dislikes that the other person evokes in us. We’re locked into a frame of reference that can keep us from perceiving things outside of our basic assumptions. 

In this fixed state, people learn to don masks and play pre-determined roles void of authenticity.  Evolution from this place is limited.

In Daniel H. Pink’s book, A Whole New Mind, he discusses how our society is moving away from the Information Age into the Conceptual Age where leadership is marrying our left-directed reasoning ability with our right-directed aptitudes like design, story, symphony, empathy, play and meaning. 

Story, myth, allegory, empathy and relationship are the qualities that a machine cannot replicate. In this way, we are differentiated from our computer counterparts. 

Our future depends on our interdependence on the whole of being human instead of fragmented and compartmentalized parts as in the previous way we interacted in the business environment.   

For years Joseph Campbell wrote about The Power of Myth and related truths.

“Myth is the secret opening through which the inexhaustible energies of the cosmos pour into human manifestation.”
– Joseph Campbell (http://www.mythsdreamssymbols.com/herojourney.html )

Our emerging definition of leadership includes believing there is a different or better way to do things than they have been done before.

It’s not a pose of arrogance but rather a viewpoint with an infinite amount of possibilities.

This vision of Leadership is that everyone has leadership capacity which simply needs to be called forth from the collective knowledge base.

“Leadership is about empathy. It is about having the ability to relate and to connect with people for the purpose of inspiring and empowering their lives,” says Oprah Winfrey. 

According to Joseph Jaworski in “Synchronicity – The inner path of leadership, today’s effective leader has an attitude of servitude.

The leader who has the wisdom to ask, “How can I serve you?” is based upon a greater understanding of how we are all connected in a larger cosmic body.

When one of us is in trouble, we are all suffering. When we view how our actions affect the world, we are operating out of the understanding that we are all links in the same chain. 

Leadership is also the ability to be transparent by taking off the masks which were worn in an archaic time by those who were afraid of many things, including change.

The willingness to take risks and embracing failure as a tool for growth and refinement is a valuable asset in today’s leader. “Where you stumble, there your treasure lies,” says Joseph Campbell. 

Ultimately the qualities of a true and effective leader has more to do with their state of “being” than with their state of “doing”.

This state has an effortless quality to it that is steeped in trusting a higher power and allowing the synchronicities of our lives to unfold without effort. 

The ability to listen and allow people to feel heard is another benchmark of a authentic leader. They engender trust and show respect by holding confidences close to heart. 

Today’s leader is adept at merging their heart and its wisdom with their rational mind and its knowledge.  Leadership in this emerging dynamic has a lot to do with integrating your whole being into the Leadership role.

We are in a time of integration where the individual is learning to merge the various areas of their lives that have been previously compartmentalized.  New skills are being learned and practiced.  The way is not always clear ~ until it is.

The individual leader is taking their personal integration into the business environment and businesses are taking this wisdom into the global economy. 

Leadership is a state of being whole and integrated in an ever-evolving refinement that occurs throughout our entire lives.

As within – so it is without. 

The limits to our individual potential and the potential of business environments as well as our world are mostly imagined.

Go beyond what you think is possible.  Find the miraculous in your day – operate in the realm of possibilities.  Live your life with a whole new mind.

 

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Peace 

By Stacy K. Waltman

It too happened on September 11th ~ one hundred years ago. 

Please visit www.workadayforpeace.org for an historical recounting of Mahatma Gandhi’s approach to ending discrimination through his non-violent protestations. 

Gandhi changed the nation and the world through his strong and peaceful efforts. 

Please take a moment to read the article on Gandhi and perhaps gain a new perspective on the significance of that particular day.

May you be blessed with kindness, wisdom and strength.

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